Señor Fuss 
I’m staring at a screen for hours and a term has been reoccurring in my browsing. The back of the online community has been using a funny reference turning into some kind of insult called “Soy Boy.” And this term really insults the feelings of many men that fit the culture. So let’s dive deeper into this hilarious new up and rising atrocity called “Soy Boy.”
“Soy Boy,” what is the definition. I guess its a more complex form of a wimpy boy. Many sources state the definition of a soy boy as a man who lacks all masculine qualities. A man in extreme pathetic state, who over indulges in the products and ideals of such emasculating pathetic-ness. You know these guys, the ones’ that can’t break a sweat without crying for some water. Grown men that literally sob under small pressure from the small demands from other people. Those guys that would rather meltdown about a problem needing fixed, instead of sucking it up and solving the problem like a big boy. These are the guys that have their woman carry him through the door on the wedding day instead of the the other way around. Men that wouldn’t eat meat because they think about the feelings of the animals being slaughtered. This is the guys that tell their woman to sleep on the couch when they get in a argument.
Now the term “Soy Boy” obviously refers to soy milk. Why do they compare? Research dating back to 2009 have concluded, as far as the nut related family, soy products have the second highest concentration of phytoestrogen. So when you pump a man, who naturally produces testosterone, with more estrogen, it alters the physical and emotional chemistry. I’m talking about changes in male muscular anatomy, emotional sensitivity, shrinking man meat and many other anti-male qualities. Remember soy is a substitute for many dairy products. After years of eating soy products it alters the body chemistry. I think it can be hazardous to women too. Woman do naturally produce estrogen but adding more to the soup can have its downfall. Sounds like soy products can have you wondering why your daughter has developed her body parts before 10-years-old.
To many, the term seems harmless and funny to the so called “normal,” but there are some spoiled men out there that really find this offensive. I guess they really are a “Soy Boy” if they take such a childish term to heart. Even the ladies have expressed such distaste for this new wave of men hitting the market. The videos are hilarious too. I’ve seen the same amount of videos about ladies shaming the soy boy community, as well as men targeting famous people to highlight with the slander. Countless videos of the “Top Reasons” why women don’t want to date a soy boy. Reasons revolve around the desire for “classical” male traits to what “normal” women seek from a guy. Such as wanting a man that protects them with fearlessness. Wanting a man that don’t cry more than them. Man that takes action, not overly feminist, having some athleticism, who won’t back down from a fight. The back lash is even more hysterical, the soy boy community labels those traits as “antagonizing” and are “mean” and overly radical.
Honestly I like the controversy behind it; but I have been raised by old school grandparents. I never would have believed that the natural behavior and tendencies that nature has embodied me, as a male, to be so offensive. As part of a dying breed its only natural for me to challenge the integrity of these “Soy Boys.” I would lose because competitive aggression is so frowned upon that I would be shamed. So what can old school men like me do. Trust in our identities because nothing wrong with our desires. From what it looks like from my perspective the more “Soy Boys” in the world, means more single lady opportunities for us old school fellas.
Writing this stems questions such as “what do ladies desire?” or “What makes the definition of a man?”
In my opinion what attracts desire is the discipline to be the best version of yourself, that you can be. Everyone has different tastes, and I have to address that there are ladies out there that would love to have a “Soy Boy” for themselves. Though I do see a divide in the male atmosphere from the growing differences people are addressing. This may be small but something tells me it might grow to a bigger issue. People are sensitive, some things have to be laughed off because there are more serious issues in the world.
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